Infatuation:[ from Wikipedia] --you've only know the person a short time, or superficially for a longer period (from a distance) --you may have had sex, but you don't know them emotionally as a person --you idealize their behavior and aren't accepting of their whole actions. You place them on a pedastal. --you trivialize behavior such as abuse or cheating, or think it won't occur if they dated/married you --you tend to fantasize about them often and are then disappointed when you spend any real time with them. You become bored with them the longer you know them.

Love:[ from Wikipedia] --you've been involved with them for a significant amount of time--at least 6 months to well over a year or longer --you have the same interests, agree on important issues (whether or not to have marriage or children, use of finances). You make mutual agreements, and no one bullies the other. --you've had arguments with them where you handled the disputes in a rational manner, and where neither of you holds grudges or abuses the other. --you enjoy intimacy with them, and have a mutual agreement on the boundaries of your sexual relationship (with yourselves and/or with others). You don't cheat on each other. --you've met their family and friends, and generally like them --you've lived together, or made major mutual decisions (purchases, travel plans) --you can go periods of time without seeing them, and you still feel the same way about them. You don't become bored as time goes by.

ı think love is better than infatuation. because infatuation is be tied up blindly :D