Hello, When something difficult faces you that is the time when you become positive or negative in your reactions. When things are good certainly you will be feeling good; positivity is handling difficult situations with optimism and willingness to overcome the difficulty filling oneself with positive affirmations and avoiding passive and negative feelings that might lead to sadness and pessimism. Acknowledging the fact that life is not a fancy trip where everything is colorful ,bright and with no problems to face now and then is basically important to be ready to face problems. Expecting bad times as times to learn lessons in life , to grow and change will make them more acceptable. Feeling responsible about our behavior makes us aware that sometimes the negative situations are induced by our own negative actions. So it is a good time for us to learn how to modify our perceptions and acknowledge some week points in our characters. Through mistakes we learn , through difficult situations we grow. Learning to be tolerable, understanding and forgiving are all positive traits that help one to be more flexible in dealing with problems in human relationships for example. Holding grudges , magnifying situations or having feelings of self guilt will all put us in bad moods and let negativity govern our attitude. Being oversensitive about people's reactions will make you feel bad .You have to realize that people are different and will not always act according to your expectations even people who are close to you. Detach yourself from negative actions of others. It is their own problem and you don't have to take it personally.

Hmm maybe finding happiness in trivial things and seeing the beauty in small details, enjoying simplicity of everyday life.... all these makes me feel positive. However I encounter lots of accidents and problems, or sometimes I feel very negative without any apparent reason. Then my friends usually help me out :) What I think is, cherishing our good and bad moments are impportant for living our live "fully" Hope this helps :)

Try to surround yourself with people who make you feel positive ,act and react positively because every action has got it is opposite reaction that is equal not only on a physical ground but also what concerns interpersonal relations. Sometimes the very reason why you meet with negativity is that your initial attitude is negative, you might not be aware of it though. Some day you put an angry expression on your face because you are not happy for a reason and you meet a person anywhere and think " why is he/she looking so unpleasantly at me?", while in fact his/her expression is only the reaction to your expression in the first place. That doesn't mean that some people will not meet your positive attitude with negativity in other situations, but then you have to be detached .They have their negativity to deal with ,she acted that way because she is probably not self confident enough , he did that because he is holding grudges all the time etc ....So try to have a positive outlook at life by constantly modifying your own negative behavior and feeding yourself with positive affirmations that might come from good friends as well ;)加油

Positive is the act of agreeing with certainty or affirmation, while negative is an act of denying and contradicting the truth, A person who is constantly disproving is negative. Hope this answer is sufficient enough.

Well being negative or positive, time will pass by. Its a matter of choice, if you choose to be positive, you are happier and bad things may seem good. However, if you choose to be negative, not only will you be miserable, bad things will become worst in your eyes and worst of all, bad for health. If its about choice, why not choose something that is good and be happy...