love and language surprised by so many questions about boyfriend/girlsfriends, etc (it remembers me to a radio program in spain under franco dictatorship where everyone could ask advice for love matters but not for political matters and the like), i am asking this: imagine you are in from of two or more boys/girls you can choose as a lover - last decision, everything else solved -. the candidates are the same characteristics in every sense (impossible, but let's give a chance), sweel lloking, intelligent, sweet, nice corporal odour, etc. the only thing different is the language they speak. would you choose the one who speaks the language you want to learn or you like better? (poligamous societies members not expected to answer). is this question related to language something?