very easy to say those words, I can say "I love you" to everyone... But it sure very difficult when you want to say those to person you really love. But if you're confident to say then there is a courage to say "I love you"..you want the result you have to say it no matter what, otherwise you will missed it!

some one said it to me but i didn't feel the same way at that time so i lost him he didn't give me the chance to love him back so if you mean it then you should say it and give them some time to love you back

I had the courage, to tell him on the phone :$ but you should do it, people have to know what u feel about them, specially in this situation

Say it before you regret it...

interesting question from the intercultural point of view..as you are a chinese girl, could you tell me what's the usual behaviour of chinese young girls about this? i also would like to know up to what point young girls in china are breaking some traditions, which ones are they most rebellious for, and what are the behaviours they have to face from family, neighbourhood, social enviroment, political establishment, etc. not talking about the most comlicated themes, but just enough about wearing some clothes, going out alone or late, new acquitances, etc, thing simple in appearance but that have a lot of meaning for young people. send me a message if you want to tell me anything.