It would be helpful if you could paste a text containing that word. Anyway, the only word I could think of was به ستوه . Did you mean that word? If so, it means ''to be fed up with someone or something.'' Example: از رفتار او به ستوه آمده است . She's fed up with her behavior.

Could it be the English word "bestow?" It is an older, less commonly used word that means to give or present something to someone that the receiver must take, like an honor, or a gift, or a special designation. It is usually used in the past tense. It is from the word "to place." "The knightship was bestowed upon three brave warriors." "The church does not bestow this office lightly."