Should you look for love while in college ?
well , this is the very topic in my oral english class today . PRO or CON ? can u share ur ideas ? thanks .
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Answers · 4
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Well I don't think people should be specifically looking for love in the first place. They should be looking for people whose company they enjoy and with who they have that special personal chemistry - the love comes along it sooner or later. "Looking for love" sounds damn desperate and awkward. Like they're prepared to try almost everything semi-bearable and result is all those totally incompatible pairs... it's like Nazi going to Jewish single-night... >_>
Actually when man says "I'm looking for love" my brain translates it as "I'm searching for home spirit to wash my shitty clothes and to cook". When woman says that "I'm looking for love" my brain translates it as "I need someone to pay my bills".
Well the answer your question:
PRO
- (The non-superficial answer). If you meet some guy who feels more than just "oh he's ok enough"... something more special. Go for it! That might be the chance of the life time. There's never wrong time for love when you're matured enough. I don't know what huge deal people have to avoid relationships just because they're not "financially secure" enough to provide for family. Starting to pop out horde of kids isn't some compulsory part of the relationship. Thank the holy contraceptives for that. The size of wallet shouldn't be factor in choosing the partner in the first place.
- (The superficial anwer). If you want sentinent, walking wallet dating someone in the college might magically boost your student budget at least if you're woman. In man's case the effect would be the opposite. Paying the upkeep and bribes...erm gifts for the trophy-gf would be the financial doom for every poor college boy.
CONS
- Might take energy and concentration away from your studies.
- College boys actually aren't the most opulent creatures...unless they have rich parents...
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Love will find you anywhere, especially when you are not actively seeking it!
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I agree with all the responses above, love actually comes to you when you least expect it :)
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I have a short answer for that...
Let love look for you. :)
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