I think you can win the hearts of others by Kindness and honest feelings. In my country, there is a wisdom says that : ( There is a messenger between hearts ) so if you really love someone and have honest, faithful, deep and love passions and emotions, the person whom you love will feel your love and may love you too. But sure if you love someone, you should show him your love but in indirect way in order not to lose your dignity that you can express your love by your eyes. And I wish to live in love and happiness.

I agree with Wallsoft.

sorry but if I knew that answer, the wonan I love would be in my arms right now .!