well, I don't think that crying is an act of gayness but I can't cry :D maybe because I really don't care about the things happen in my life so I have no reason to cry but I think crying is a good thing especially when you are sad or heart broken because it can help your body release endorphin and make you feel better. i'm not so emotional but I have emotions and for some ppl my emotion is strong but if something bad happened, crying wouldn't help. I try to think logically and find a good way for that problem.

'Guys' are taught from a very early age not to cry. The pressure starts from family as soon as the boy understands words, and continues throughout adolescence to adulthood from everyone around him. Recently I had reason to discipline an employee for not doing his job properly, explaining that he will lose his job if he does not rapidly improve. He was a 22 year old male, and left my office crying. Other employees did not question if I had been too strong in my criticism, instead, they asked why would he cry for that reason, with the strongest disapproval coming from younger female staff. If females cry in the office, there is quickly a group of people to comfort her, if a male cries, he is condemned by his co-workers. In answer to your question, it is social conditioning.

i think some guys want to show they are STRONG on the outside, but infact inside of there hearts they are crying/sad.(emotional) because some guys think crying or being sad is a act of "gayness".. anyways :D that's my opinion :D i hope it helps a little. xx

I thin this is because their manhood forces them not to show their weakness or not to show what hurts and pains them because man is known all the time by his strength. And also expressing their emotions as crying will make them loss there dignity. But I think it is totally different with women that women sometimes use their tears in order to gain what they want.

To be mysterious and cool……I guess this is the motivation of these guys to hide their emotions before girls.