I think it's the same for a man. Success is being able to go to bed at night and say..."I did something positive today that made a difference to the environment/people/friends/lover/colleagues." And I think it's an internal thing. I don't think it has to do with what sort of house you own or what car is parked in your driveway or what people think of you. I think it also has to do with experiencing life in the 'present'...right now; not worrying about what's in the future or complaining about the past.

i am thinking aboput this question recently. what is the success for female, what is my aim of life? In the past years, i thought career is important for female, coz female need a career to support themslves. And i do not think it is good for a woman too dependent on a man. So i chose a college far away from my hometown. And now i chose another city to work( not the hometown and not the city my college sited in). But now i feel a little bit tired, i am far away from my family and my firends. maybe i will be back to them soon.

yap !~that's a good question.i suppose the success for me means a job from which i can gain happiness ; and the warm family which always support me ;and the friends which not often get together but still understand each other quite much ;and a baby when the summer coming i will take her to the beach of course together with her father .for a woman ,just like me ,the success is just the happiness for life ,nothing about the money ,nothing about the cars.

can make balance between their family and career

being a good mother, wife, and daughter.