Letting someone down in Korean
This is a long question...but basically I met a guy 소개팅 and we went on two dates. I think it would be best to tell him I'm not interested right away, but I'm not sure how to say it nicely.

I want to say "I had a great time with you and I'm so glad I met you, but I just don't see a relationship with you." I want to express that he's a nice guy and thank you for everything...basically I want to let him down nicely.

Can you help me? Thanks~~

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Letting someone down in Korean
This is a long question...but basically I met a guy 소개팅 and we went on two dates. I think it would be best to tell him I'm not interested right away, but I'm not sure how to say it nicely.

I want to say "I had a great time with you and I'm so glad I met you, but I just don't see a relationship with you." I want to express that he's a nice guy and thank you for everything...basically I want to let him down nicely.

Can you help me? Thanks~~

Answer

"I had a great time with you and I'm so glad I met you, but I just don't see a relationship with you."

- I had a great time with you = X 씨와 즐거운 시간을 보냈어요 / X 씨와 만나서 즐거웠어요 (replace 'X' with the first name)
- I'm so glad I met you = X 씨를 만난 게 기뻐요 / X 씨를 만나서 좋았어요.
- I just don't see a relationship with you = X 씨와 계속 만날 순 없을 것 같네요 / 계속 만나고 싶지는 않네요.

1. X 씨를 만나 즐거웠고 만났다는 사실이 기뻐요. 하지만 계속 만나기는 어려울 것 같네요. 
2. X 씨와 만나서 기쁘고 함께 보낸 시간 즐거웠지만 앞으로 계속 만나고 싶지는 않네요. (reordered a little)

#2 is a little clearer on not wanting to go on seeing the person.

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