You have to be happy ,because thereby you can discover who deserve your time to chat with, before you waste it. Aappearance is indeed very deceptive.

Obviously appearance does matter. Otherwise, what would be of art? However I did not say good appearance is preferred: good and bad are both very interesting (anyway they're subjective opinions), especially if you consider them in comparison with inner nature. Because what's important is considering every aspect of people and things, not only appearance. Whenever you meet someone caring of appearance only, don't feel too down from their leaving you: they're probably too superficial. I'm sure italky is full of better people. Good appearance is question of luck, self-care and... attitude! Even you feel so ugly, remember our feeling of ourselves is not much objective, and definitely your inner beauty will be stressed by contrast. Unfortunately I know many so-considered beautiful people who are used to get anything they want for their appearance, and never cared of studying or learning something well... now they look pretty stupid to me or to intelligent people. ;P

your appearance is not your fault...hha

um...........because appearance does matter ...just because your appearance.............so you will not have more chances to chat with some gilrs,hehehee ..........but i dont care your appearance....hehe

If only you were on the right...