我碰到这种情况的时候, 总是会用积极的心理暗示法, 告诉自己, 我一定行的, 我很好，我很优秀. 虽然我得不到我现在想要的, 但是我不认输, 只要我不放弃，我一定能等到让我快乐起来的时候。经常这样，你会发现，原来自己很坚强，坚强地活着，坚强地抗争，虽然时刻忍受着不堪忍受的痛苦，但是却发现自己原来是这么坚强的一个人，成功来自于坚强，只要不屈不挠地跟所有的不幸抗争着，我相信总有一天，所有的梦想都会开花的。对现状不满意吗？摇摇头，甩开它，没什么大不了的，我坚强着，我努力着，总有一天，会有我满意的时候的。

Is it so? You have nothing that satifies you? A little? Anything? The weather? The light this time WENT ON when you pressed the switch? Jessieshao ist right. Find other things that make you feel better. Or find something you already have, but didn't notice yet. I know this feeling. 天天 - day by day nothing works. But that doesn't matter. There will be always a 明天 - tomorrow, when things can go wrong, again... No! Don't read my last sentence! Cheer up!

Maybe you always wait to move until there comes a big occasion, but you won´t be prepared for that until you see the great occasions in the little everyday things. Try to do next thing with all your senses, and next thing the same...The big thing will come at the end of the day: you will be satisfied with your own person as you never were before. Then you will love yourself and the love you give will value much more tomorrow than today.

find new things and do it