I live with my girlfriend and we have a beautiful child but we are not married. Marriage doesn't change anything. You can be married before the God and to beat your wife before the same God. So it depends on the people if their life together will become "a living hell". Love and attraction fade away with time, it is normal, natural. The most important things are both partners' feelings, caring, responsibilities, attitude. If one manages to keep those virtues as they should be, his life with partner will be happy, no matter there is a marriage or not.

I agree but not completely because it is not always the case. I'm not married, but i would say that: once two people stay together and do things together, what happens is that they begin to live their normal lives and so the nice guy/courteous lady acts before marriage are put aside. At this point the only thing that needs to be present is dialogue to try and resolve issues as early as possible. If that does not happen and issues keep piling up fights keep coming in and they begin to experience the hell aspects of marriage. One thing is that, even if a break up occurs and a new relationship is started, the same thing will happen. Therefore, the couple need only to resolve and solve trivial issues before they grow into difficult ones, then there would be no hell.

It really depends on how the couple live their life.No one is perfect and everyone is subject to temptations and weakness being human.For those whose marriage failed because of the inequities of their partner,or those who experienced maltreatment and violence,they are the ones who often cried "marriage life a hell!" However,for couples who managed to keep their vows, lived in harmony,understanding and honesty,life can be easier no matter what eventualities may come.Being open to each other and loving unconditionally,through the years,i think relationship surely survives.

I believe that marriage life finally makes me happier than single life at the end of my life. The relationship to others sometimes stresses me in the moment, but gives me irreplaceable experience , sometimes through our children.

interesting question for me.. coz i m not married yet. but i am not agree that marriage is a living hell. It depents on your life partner. As per our culture and religion poeple obey the marital law and keep the promise for whole of the life. hope this answers the question.