when we were young, we r always headstrong, impulse and we often do something which we like without thinking. when we grow up, we have more responsibility, take in account the feelings of people around us. dont be childish any more, we must think abt consequences and listen to other people's advices before we make decisions, think abt if it is right or not, if it will hurt others or not. Of course, there is something we can not predict the results are right or wrong, and sometimes we feel that there is something we must to do , then just do it ,the facts will tell us right or wrong. people becomes mature with such an environment . remember, everything has price to pay, worthing or not, it's up to you. bt if u decide to do , u must accept all the results no matter right or wrong, good or bad, you cant complain others, coz it's your own choice

hey チト!! i think that in part people generally guide their live based in the education that they received ,but sometimes we need to decide by ourselves and sometimes thinking in others.

myself.

Since I've got my children, all my own decisions are after taking them in account. We don't live alone, so we always think at least a little about the repercussion of our attitudes. Though, sometimes we have to do it by ourselves. These are generally the hard moments in our lives, when we make a decision, but we have to face it if we wish to be independent and responsible for ourselves.

HI, you are really smart person , have so many questions, and i think you have thinked about life a lot, and i think my life, feelings, acts, decisions are defining a lot by my parents and my friends, because i always take them seriously, but maybe a lot of people would say that's wrong, but i am doing that, i will happy what my parents' happy, that's important, but i also wanna follow my heart . that's really hard.