Hi there. You can try the Raymond Murphy series called "Grammar in use" Good luck.

I completely agree with Jmat. However, you are in luck! One of my best friends is studying to become an English professor and she uses: The Little, Brown Handbook by Fowler Aaron. It covers grammar and usage to documentation and research. I hope it can help you out!

Native speakers don't study any grammar, unless they're studying to become teachers. It's not like in China, where people grow up speaking dialects and must study Mandarin at school as a second language.