When to use English formalities?
Even though I consider myself to be fluent in English, I have a hard time knowing when to use specific expressions/greetings depending on the situation I'm facing. So please, if anyone can enlighten me on these, just answer :)
Hello
Hi
Hey
Thanks
Thank you
How are you
How's it going
What's up
What have you been up to
Also, please mention if any of these sound outdated or are not commonly used (I watch to many tv shows). Thank you so much in advance :P
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Answers · 6
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In a formal situation I would NOT expect anyone to say Hi! How's it going? What's up?
If they said Hey! I'd raise an eyebrow and walk away. I would NOT be pleased.
Formal greetings: Good morning/afternoon/evening. How do you do? (if meeting for the first time)(shake hands while you say it). Hello, very nice to meet you. How are you?
Younger people would probably be more tolerant of informal greetings. I'm afraid I do NOT like any stranger addressing me with Hi! or Hey! at any time, even informal occasions.
I do not like students who send messages starting Hi there! To me it is just too rude, and presumptive.
But I'm an old grizzly bear.
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Hello Oliver,
The decision on whether to use formal or informal language depends on who you are speaking to.
For people you don't know, you should always use formal language and for younger people and friends you can use informal language. (Think Vous and Tu in French)
Hello - Formal
Hi - Informal
Hey - Inf
Thanks - Inf
Thank you - F
How are you? - F
How's it going - Inf
What's up - Inf
What have you been up to? - F
Hope this helps
Bob
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