We say 僕<ぼく>は／私<わたし>は　君<きみ>を／あなたを　愛して（い）る＝I love you. We say僕は／私は　君に／あなたに　恋して（い）る＝I'm in love with you / I yearn for you / I have a crush on you But 私の／が恋する人 and 私の恋人 are different. 私の／が恋する人＝person of whom I am in love / person for whom I yearn / person whom I have a crush on　※The two people have not yet become lovers. 私の恋人＝my lover(girlfriend / boyfriend)　※The two people have already become lovers. And私の／が愛する人 and 私の愛人<あいじんaijin> are different, too. 私の／が愛する人＝person whom I love 私の愛人＝my mistress / paramour　※愛人<airen> means "lover / spouse" in Chinese. You can see my answer on the next page. http://www.italki.com/question/298150

恋 would be different from 愛 depending on situations. 恋 is more likely to be used when you are "starting to love" something/someone. On the other hand, 愛 is used when you are "literally: in love with something/someone. For instance, 愛 is used for someone you are dating with, while 恋 is used for someone you have a crush on. But I realized that the word 恋人 is exception. As you said above, 恋人 means lovers. hmmm... That's one of the difficult parts of learning Japanese. Hope this helps.

I don't you say waht？ but i look 恋人 and 愛。i think is word very there is love。