hi dear ....... my name is ......... how are you?

First.Read his or her profile. Then.Find out what you are interest in him or her. Now. Start a convercation with it/them. In other case, if the guy is too lazy to describle himself or herself. I wonder if we to him or his just because he or she has a nice photo in the profile...o(∩_∩)o...

Well ...for me usually i dont start the question ..i just answer and repeate his/her questions ...i do this because i found out some poepl wont answer you,, they consider the normal ordinary questions are private!!!

hi enigma, thanks for sharing me your question ok, I will say the first conversation will be characterized of carefulness from both sides and will start by simple questions to introduce themselves like what's your name? (if he/she uses nickname) where are you from? how old are you? what's your profession and so on. The first chat resembles in some way a unplanned meeting with someone you don't know whom you met by chance in the train or bus station. after that first chat you can discover your new friend and beguin to trust him/her, then he/she will become a friend, a true friend whom you love, you trust and of course you need.

hello, my friend how are u, where are u from