I think that i was a lil pesimist , but i think that i was more relalist ; why ? because i heard a lot of similar stories from close people , i don't say that 100% of such relations didn't work , but the probability of success of such relationships is TINY . Why ? - The guy is from a different city, from a different country , from a different continent , from a different culture , from a defferent religion , Speaks another language ,.... all these factors are very important in a Sincere realtions , and their lack will cause a serious problem on the health of the relation . And here we come to the most important point in the question . You are muslim , first are you convinced by Islam as belief ? ideology , a way to live, to act like a muslim , to obey , To take it completly , not only pray and do worships , ISlam is further more than praying and fasting . What's important for you ? your belief or you guy ? God's love or your feelings ? it's up to you to decide. There is always solutions ,and there is the classical solution which is, trying to introduce Islam to him ,if he is convinced you can go ahead , else you cannot marry him as a muslim woman . but the Issue here is : What if he becomes muslim ,but only to marry you !! ( no one can know the real intention but God ) . In the end i can write Pages about this , But know just one thing . there are too many good men in turkey, and if u failed the right one there , it will be almost impossible to find him anywhere alse . And as a Muslim you know that such relationships aren't allowed and all what such relationships brought is BETRAYLS and CHEATS , Men cheated even in the presence and of their wives, and under their noses , So what guarantees you this while you are so so far aways from him ! Finally , " DONT LOOK FOR WATER IN THE MIRAGE " May Allah will guide you .

First , i agree with Desperado in most of the points . Well , u are from turkey and the guy is from peru . aND you didn't precised how you know him !But i dedude that it's a virtual relation . well, What are the things that make you loving him ? His appearance ? if yes , there are too many awesome guys in turkey . is he kind with you ? what are your proofs you didn't even met him before !Guys can be a wolves in sheeps skin , also it can be just a kind of filling an emptiness inside him . His moralities ? 100% of uncertainty ( Humain are born actors ) .His wealth ? Oups 200% of doubt . ......etc . One of the most dangerous aspects of chat is to Fall in love with not only a virtual person but in an image in your mind ! i'll give you an example ,Some girl is chatting with a nice guy from Somewhere , first he is only her languistic partner or friend , then they strat to talk to each other more and more and by time topics won't be always ( Oh my friend how to say i love you in spanish ? ) , the relation evoluate by time ,and they ebgin to feel closer everytime they talk , and here comes the ESSENCE of the problem , every one starts to Imagine the other one as his SOUL MATE ( every one has in mind the descriptions of his perfect future partner or Soul MAte ) , then one or both fall in love ! Fall in love with an Imaginary picture .

may god help you !

about i have done many replies, i don't want to repeat each of them. but only one,at this: read "On Love "by Gibran. Gibran gave me power and guided me,when i felt lost ,upset. try to read , hope he can help you ! have a good time

Fight for your love, you will live your whole life happy, all the problems are solved on the way. Run away from virtual loves, that does not exist, that only harms your mind and your soul, it is not healthy; use the net to know people and get more friends, but love is another thing!!!! a big deal! Wish you both all the best. I assume he loves you that much too, right? Bye bye