if to is not used in english. I know how hard it is to have to ask somebody to borrow money or something else you really need. I know how bad it feels.

You would ask them to "lend" you money, btw. Either that or you might ask if you can borrow some money from them. The way you have written it it sounds like you are asking them to borrow "from" you. Borrow "from," but lend "to."You can remember it that way.