thanks everybody i have found the answer :) the road to happiness full of hardships A good gain takes long pain

As I am not a native English speaker, here I will just try to explain 好事多磨 in English. It means "good things never come easy", I think. Hopefully those who know the answers will post them here, as I also would like to know.

what do you mean by"??????"... you can ask in so many different ways you know... i can teach you...