The question should be something like this: Using your words but with a better word order. How would the ideal woman be for you? And the ideal man? (Still sounds a little strange). Or preferably. How would you describe your ideal woman? And the ideal man? What would your ideal woman be like? And the ideal man? In answer to your question... Ideal = 'Conforming to an ultimate standard of perfection or excellence'. Is there such a thing as an ideal woman or man? In such an imperfect world, I very much doubt it.

answerıng the questıon ıs very hard

I guess it's different for everyone, right?? For me, Iron Man or Jon Bon Jovi (among others) will do! <3 =D (by the way, I'm serious)