Don't make others a priority when you are only an option (in Mandarin)
How do you say this in Mandarin, or something along the lines of this?
"Don't make someone a priority when to them you are only an option"..?

Help is appreciated, thank you..I want to know translation in a more "sophisticated" or "poetic" form... if possible... thanks

Question

Don't make others a priority when you are only an option (in Mandarin)
How do you say this in Mandarin, or something along the lines of this?
"Don't make someone a priority when to them you are only an option"..?

Help is appreciated, thank you..I want to know translation in a more "sophisticated" or "poetic" form... if possible... thanks

Answer

別人看你可有可無時，你就不必把他捧上天。 

可有可無 : 無關緊要。如：「她在影片中的戲分可有可無，因為她只是個花瓶而已！」
捧 : 讚揚、奉承他人或代為吹噓。如：「捧場」、「他被捧上天了。」

如果你對某人而言，僅僅只是一個小角色的話，你就沒必要把他看得太重要。
別人看你無關緊要， 你就別把他看成第一要務。
若他人視我如無物，則我視他人為糞土。

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看具体情境吧。比如

情场上：你可以说“别人当你是备胎，你就不要把他当真命天子”。
生活里：你可以说“别人看轻你，你也没必要把他当盘儿菜”。

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如果别人认为你可有可无，你也不必太在乎他。

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当别人有求于你时，要将主动牢牢地拽在你的手中。

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