Julie and Perla are right. Unfortunately italki is not alone in its share of creepy people. I suggest that you click onto this guy's picture, then you will see his profile. On the right hand side you will see a yellow flag. Click onto it and block this guy. Don't let him bully you in doing anything that you feel uncomfortable with. If he has said anything inappropriate to you report him to the italki administration team. To protect yourself further , you can go up to your privacy settings and limit who can contact you. In future, think twice before about adding people and don't give out personal details.

Some ask, some do not. It is not normal though to get angry if someone says no.

It is an abnormal thing! ;) Don't worry! I'm sure, you will find really good friends who will understand you. By the way, one man supposed that I'm a man (hahaha), that's why I didn't want a video-chat with him;) He wanted to make sure;)) But I didn't. I'm sure I'm a woman;)))

Ugh, what a creep! The good thing is that he showed what a jerk he is, and now you can blow him off and find more pleasant, respectful people to chat with. Don't be upset that he said you have a problem. He doesn't *really* think that. In his culture, insults like this are used to make you do exactly what someone else wants. He expected you to react by video chatting with him, to prove you did not have a problem. Have a good laugh that his tactic backfired and cost him the chance to hang out with an awesome person (you!).

That guy is one of those guys, man. I really don't like those guys, he is probably one of the guys who just is looking for a girl to have fun with. I use QQ also, and I have never asked to do video chat, very weird.