"The nice guy comes last." I think, in many cases, the nice guy is also the passive, considerate, people-pleasing, easy-going guy who is not demanding of what he wants. Therefore, the more demanding people who take charge and do whatever it takes (often bad things) to get what they want will take everything first. This leaves the nice guy last, picking up the leftovers from the "bad boys" and "jerks."

my family and friends always tell me that a nice guy is always exists and he is waiting for me in somewhere sometime and someplace ,maybe the idea give me little consolation .but i think if i want to meet my Mr.right and soon.i need to know the right place and the right way to find him .!haha!

Sometimes it's true. People who are narcissistic tend to have a lot of success in the world, and they are completely selfish and cruel if someone goes against them. Cruel people also are fascinating because they are rare -- people want to "cure them" or understand what made them that way. However, the "nice guy" can make real friends, and have relationships with meaning. But I think in most leadership positions, people will pick a "mean guy" because they often have a larger than life ego and persona.

the nice guy was gone hahaha