I think you want to say: "Her patience has driven her to impulsiveness." (the her goes before the to). Otherwise, the sentence does not make sense to me. And in this form, it cannot be "is" it must be "has" because "her patience" occurs before her "impulsiveness". Said another way "She has been patient for so long that she has become impulsive."

It does not make sense. A patient person is the complete opposite of an impulsive one.

For instance,he is or has gone.what of he is done or has done.what do you think about these?

They are both grammatically correct. It really depend on the position you are in. The Present Perfect tense, 'is' is stating a fact. In this case, 'she' probably is going to do something crazy. The Past Perfect tense 'has' means the action has complete. So, 'she' might have done something already. 现在完成时, 'is' 通常用来描述事实和正在进行的事物。 在这种情况下，她将要失去理智 过去完成时， 'has' 通常用于描述已经发生的事情。 在这种情况下，她已经失去理智了