we can't force them to be like that . we can only give them some inspiration . It's their choices and they have the right . As for ourselves , well ... I can only say that we must learn to let go , sometime we need to let go of our treasure and the price for doing that is satisfying and that is good Karma . And when people offer something to us with full pleasure , we should take their kind offer . That is for the generous . As for the Talkative , we should try to find out what topic that they like . If you got the right topic , conversation will become comfortable and fun . But , there has to be some limit in talking , if we talk too much , people can take it to be boring and annoying . As for the Selfless , i don't quiet get it . Do you mean caring for other and not for ourself ??

You can't make anyone do anything like that. Ah, trying to change other people, huh? Well, keep trying and let me know what happens. ^_^

by teaching him the good things in life and to let him know that generousity is a God gift for good pepole