Can I trust him ?
We first met at the new year party.Then he came to me and asked my telephone number. The first time he asked me for a dinner ,I refused.
The next time he took me to the beach and set fireworks,I was so happy about that it was my first time to set fireworks on the beach .At last ,he kissed me . What happened ? and my mind was in blank at that time .
He told me he love me and he hope that I could be the last one by his side .I asked myself again and again,and I really don't know whether I could truust him .We have not called each other for a long time .Every time I called him,it seemed that he was so busy .
He would not send a message to me when he was online . I am wondering that maybe we should give more time to each other.Should I leave? That's not the person I want,I can not feel the love .

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Can I trust him ?
We first met at the new year party.Then he came to me and asked my telephone number. The first time he asked me for a dinner ,I refused.
The next time he took me to the beach and set fireworks,I was so happy about that it was my first time to set fireworks on the beach .At last ,he kissed me . What happened ? and my mind was in blank at that time .
  He told me he love me and he hope that I could be the last one by his side .I asked myself again and again,and I really don't know whether I could truust him .We have not called each other for a long time .Every time I called him,it seemed that he was so busy . 
  He would not send a message to me when he was online . I am wondering that maybe we should give more time to each other.Should I leave? That's not the person I want,I can not feel the love .

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hi ! Although I haven't fall in love before. However, I suggest you to leave him. He seems is playful. If he does not contact you, that means he already took the feelings between you as a joke . Quit out from this game, that is your best choice.

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I'm probably going to kick myself for coming in on this, but here goes...
At my age, I've come to realize that love is as much something you do as something you feel.  Is what he does an indication of love?  For that matter is what you do indicate love?
As far as feelings, one condition of love is that the other person's happiness is essential to your own.  Is that true for him? or or you?
Only you can answer that.

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That's not the person I want,I can not feel the love.

You've answered your own question.

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I usually don't answer questions like this, but maybe I can help a little bit.

Before you love someone you must trust them.
You wrote "I really don't know whether I could truust him "
That means he has not won your trust, so the truth is you can not trust him yet.

It takes time for love to grow, and it cannot happen in a short time.

And love is something that must be earned, not just given.
You wrote "I can not feel the love."
He has not proven that he loves you, that's why you do not feel the love.

If he really loves you, he will prove it to you.
If he does not prove it to you, then ... you know the answer to your question.
Be strong...

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just try to rethink abt this relationship on a rational way just like you are only a outsider of this relationship,truth and happiness can not be gained both

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