Should we accept or refuse the kindness from other people?
my principle is as far I still can do something by myself, I mostly refuse other people help, there are people said that I'm independent, but there are people said that I'm arrogant...
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I'll translate a russian proverb.
If someone gives you - take it, if someone beats you - run.
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As long as appreciating that whether accepting or decling, I think you will make win win
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You can accept kindness from others, but watch on your independency if it's important to you, cause some gives you things not so particular deserving not to much attention too.
It depends also on your desire of liberty. Sometimes, other need affection, some times it may be you...
Upon those who tell you that you would be arrogant, make your introspection but don't waste too much time upon their opinions cause you must be appealing to you first and you'll never manage to satisfy other in the attitude they may want you would have for them. Be yourself...
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depends ^_^
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i think interdependence in friendship is good...but maybe for new friend...i'm rather skeptical to accept their "kind"...hahaha... but...thx for the advice...it's good advice ...=D
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