People are attracted to each other physically at first. It's nature's way of ensuring the human race. Once you get to know a person then you can see what they are really like.

"I think a loving heart and wisdom are more important than a nice appearance. Please Give your view." Your statement is similar to the expression, "money can't buy love". While this is true, it sure does help! :-) Most men really do appreciate the beautiful appearance of a woman, even if it's not the most important thing in the relationship.

All should be harmonious

Loving heart and wisdom comes first. If you find the "one" he/she already seems nice to you.

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