only one option ..........u try to play with word this is a way to which you tell NO ---WITHOUT HURTING SOMEBODY

Actually, you can always say 'no' to refuse something you don't like but you have to watch out the tone of your voice as not to hurt anyone. But if you really don't want to say "no", simply state your reason why. you could say: "I'd love to but........." "your idea is great but......." "it's my desire going to that place but......" and a lot more~

"I afraid I can't agree...." "I agree with you, but...." "I suggest that...." "I wonder if you could..." " Would you mind...." "Sorry, I think ...."

I would like to, but....

First of all;make sure you say "NO" for a good reason,then try to say it in a polite way without making that person feeling you're treating him down.Warm words,besides good justification will defenitly do the job