I guess there is problem with ur learning skills. And read more.listen more.get more practice it will help.

Ni hao Hebe, You already write well but your listening skills didn't progress at the same path . You say you study hard, but maybe there is a deficiency in the practical part of applying what you have studied. If you keep it all theoretical and don't practice by speaking and listening a lot ,you won't progress much at that. Try to improve your speaking skills by more listening and mingling with native speakers. On a long run it should improve your ability to speak and understand.:)

Hi, Hebe. When learning a second language, you learn to develop various areas like speaking, listening, writing, reading and comprehension. You have to hone your skills in order to be good at them. For instance, you may be good in writing because you regularly use this medium or way to communicate with people. But, there are other areas to be developed like your speaking and listening skills. So, you need to train your ears. Practice is the best solution.

Hi, this site has lots of websites listed as to how to improve your listening skills. You might want to try some of the free ideas. Go to: http://www.italki.com/knowledge/contribution-IMPROVE+YOUR+ENGLISH+LISTENING+SKILLS.htm

take your time and be patient with your learning. If it is fun you will relax and learn quickly. I have struggled with Chinese for years without a good tutor. However I have learned a lot and have been able to communicate better every day becasue I try. That is the key. Can you understadn someone and can they understand you! We should attempt competency before perfection. I did not look to see if you were boy or girl....but I have always been told the quickest way to learn is to find a girlfriend..... hahahaha