The use of "se" I just translated a podcast transcript and I am confused by the use of "se" in these sentences: 1) "Los idiomas se les dan bien a los niños, pero ya de mayor es imposible." The sentence is saying: languages are good for kids, but for those already old - it's impossible. The "les" is referring to "a los niños". Yet, I can't figure out what "se" is used for. It doesn't seem to fit any of my four rules. 2) Seguramente se te ocurrirá algo. The sentence is saying "Surely, something will occur to you". I understand the use of "te" to specify "to you". Yet, why use "se"? Is the reflexive ocurrirse being used here? If so, isn't that saying: "something" is occurring onto itself onto you?