First of all, you may want to reconstruct these sentences. Here are some possibilities you might consider: instead of "because it will ___________(grab other's attention in a negative way)" - because I don't want to seem conspicuous - because I want everyone in the meeting to take me seriously Instead of "I want to be _____________ (not be noticed)" - because I want to fit-in with everyone else - because I wouldn't want to make anyone uncomfortable These are just a few ideas. I hope they're helpful to you!