is it the culture? i am a little puzzle with a question, i found most people wish his/her friends give gifts,but most of Chinese don't like to speake out,but someone from other countries asked me to give gifts even i am not know them,just in the MSN,i knew many countries would bring gifts when they visit their friends,i think it is not for joking when he asked the gifts,and i want to know is it the different culture?