这个是说在中国传统文化影响下矛盾的婆媳关系。简单的理解是 媳妇从婆婆手里抢走了儿子，所以婆婆看媳妇总是在挑毛病，所以说 骂媳妇是拼了命 但是作为母亲 婆婆又心疼自己的儿子，希望儿媳妇对儿子好 所以存在家庭和心理上的矛盾

Sounds like Jocasta complex, but if the words is said by the girl's mother, then you can tell that the mother is dissatisfied with her daughter‘s mother-in-law. The fact is in China, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is really complicated.

This is to say, Chinese mother-in-law very loved his son, but not good for married daughter-in-law.这个是说，中国婆婆很爱自己的儿子，而对嫁过来的媳妇不好，一点也不心疼。

“已所不欲 勿施于人”，很多人的都做不到，所以才出现这句话。

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