Respect women and you will understand them.

more gifts will help you to understand their nature and don’t forget all times to shoot sweet words in their ears this the best and short way to them

I wouldn't use that phrase. For one thing, as a male stating that you don't understand girls, you're not telling them anything that they don't already know and have known since they were little, so why even bother saying it?

I am sorry to tell you that up to my knowledge the best we can do is being ourselves, hoping that 'myself' would be interesting enough for a girl or lady we are fond of. Anything real and sincere that could raise your self esteem could also have an appeal for a girl.