Lack of Maternal Love
Hi guys,Haven't discussed with you for a long time? Recently I ran into a tough problem, big time. One friend of mine told me what was on his mind. The thing is, he grew up in a family without a parent, in other words, he is motherless.He was raised by his grandparents. but he has a good heart though. He is still hesitating, coz he has no idea how to handle with girlfriend thing, has no idea how to tell female friends the fact that he is motherless. He is strong, does not want sympathy from them. just wanna get a girlfriend. but he never know how to start, since he does not intend to tell them this. As he is now 25 years old, but never experienced love, or even first love. He knows, deep down, girls will more or less care about this fact. I myself have no idea either, do girls really care about what kind of family he was raised? or he is just paranoid? or just afraid? ...Really hope you can share your fabulous opinions with me, so I can tell him. Thanks!

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Lack of Maternal Love
Hi guys,Haven't discussed with you for a long time? Recently I ran into a tough problem, big time. One friend of mine told me what was on his mind. The thing is, he grew up in a family without a parent, in other words, he is motherless.He was raised by his grandparents. but he has a good heart though. He is still hesitating, coz he has no idea how to handle with girlfriend thing, has no idea how to tell female friends the fact that he is motherless. He is strong, does not want sympathy from them. just wanna get a girlfriend. but he never know how to start, since he does not intend to tell them this. As he is now 25 years old, but never experienced love, or even first love. He knows, deep down, girls will more or less care about this fact. I myself have no idea either, do girls really care about what kind of family he was raised? or he is  just paranoid? or just afraid? ...Really hope you can share your fabulous opinions with me, so I can tell him. Thanks!

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I think perhaps his grandparents raised him well. So if he meets a nice girl, she will not care that he has no parents.
He shouldn't hide this fact, but also, he shouldn't tell her unless she asks about his family.
Love is always a scary thing, especially the first time. Tell him you will go with him on the first date to help with the conversation.

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When talking about his mother, just smile and be gentle, better with a bit tears staying in eyes, show his missing mother but not immersing in sorrow.
Don't worry, most girls in China are kind-hearted, even some look cool.

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