alljapaneseallthetime.com It will have some bright ideas. Others than that, you have to 1. Gather materials (Books, Movies, Music, Food [Yum], TV Shows, Podcasts, etc.) 2. Immerse yourself (Use the supplies as much as possible!) 3. Practice! Practice! Practice! (If you want to learn the Japanese alphabets, copyingthem down and listening to audio is a good start, but then practicing reading real Japanese words/sentences will help it absorb in to your brain faster. Want to improve speaking? Talk to native speakers) For learning two languages, do the same as my steps above and try splitting AJATT's steps. Go read the site! Ankisrs.net is useful too

I'm studying spanish, and at first, it was super difficult! The way I studied and learned it consisted of several steps. First, I basically translated every word just to read a short article or passage from a book. Once I could understand basics, I began reading news articles and I slowly became more and more comfortable with the language. Finally, I watched clips of news and that's how I'm trying to learn now! I think this process should work with any language. Good luck!