If I were to get "dumped", I would try to apologize, if I did something wrong. I would do this one time, so I would not regret not saying "I'm sorry" when I had the chance. If this relationship was a "rocky" one, or we had many problems all along, then getting "dumped" was probably something that was going to happen anyway...if not getting dumped, then maybe you would have dumped that person yourself. I would have a good cry, because that can actually be healthy....to "get it all out", all the frustration, anger, hurt feelings, and sadness. So cry when you are all alone. Then start over. Take care of yourself, your health, your environment, then start meeting new friends. Get a hobby, a fun pass-time. Smile and start all over again....but stay away from alcohol.

i will be sad or low for sometime(bcz of human nature :) ) an then i will start looking for new one..this is the life--people comes and goes but it never stops

yeah...uhmnnn...i admit i had too...but i don't remember how many time(O_o?)...However,they were not too serious...At that timess,i was right or wrong but i always say "sorry" firstly...but my explanations are not good enough...cos everyone often just glance at me...(a little bit time)...and laugh out loud for my confusion as if my explanation,excuse is really funny(but i'm seriously)...and everything come back in peace:):):) I don't know why almost men drink more and more wine and think that drunk can help them to solve the problem(o_O?)Yes,i see that is quite popular in the fact???...

I'm assuming this was a long-term relationship, something serious (otherwise, you wouldn't be asking here). Let yourself get drunk once - and once only. Then start immediately to get over it. This takes time (don't think that it won't). Find something to do that will take up your time and attention - better with friends or family. Resist the temptation to find someone immediately to take the place of the person that dumped you. This is called "being on the bounce" and it very often leads to bad relationships and experiences. Someone else will come along eventually, so long as you are able to let go of this relationship. Just don't force it. [Note: what I say is easy to talk about, but not necessarily to do. Knowing what is the right thing to do and actually doing it are two different things.]