Because unconsciously we want to understand or justify what has happened, as if understanding it would easy the pain a little bit. Perhaps it does, but the healing is rather a matter of time....

Correction: Why do we ask, when someone hurts us, why me? It is human nature to question and protect oneself from pain. Once people look at a situation more closely they find that there are many answers.

We want to ask such questions to feel better... Other people's comment makes us think in a different way .

thanks you!

And...why you?^^