We must help them feel safe and we must not compare them with other children. They are just under our control and we can focus on their behaviors instead of any criticism.We must spend a lot of time with them and show them our love.We can listen them when they talk and do not forget to kiss them too.

You have to ask doch??? :O :(( =)))))))))))))))

Good thoughts and I only add that a child should grow up in a family where there is love, understanding and devotion. As for cases which make people good parents I think majority of them happens in school years when the child has a difficult transition period (as it called in psyhology) and need parent's help the most....)))

If the kids are easy-to-handle, parents have a great chance of being successful!

Sorry, Aisha......I don't understand your question. (PS.....no one can be perfect.)