i dont want to have children.... when i was young, i like children very much. when i saw chidren at the park, i would be very happy and wanted to play with them .howerver ,when i grew up and my older sister gave birth to two children.my nephew always go to my home.and they always creat lots of troubles which make me crazy and mad. from then on, i dont like children or i dont have enough patience to treat them.sometimes, they went to my home,i would stay at my room and dont want to go out. today ,my sister phoned me that she wanted to put her bigger son to my home and asked me to take care of him for one week. at first , i said no, i dont want to. but later i said yes. how can i do,she is my sister .and her son is my nephew. even though i really dont want my nephew stay with me for one week. i cant even take care of myself , how can i take care of ur son. i still my mother take care of me . and i have my own life. if i will be with ur son,my life will change. i cant do something i like. for example,i like stay at my room alone, i like dacing , doiing yogo, waching movies , chatting with my friends and so on. but if i need to take care of my nephew , i cant do that... i dont want to give birth to children , i know i am a selfish girl. if i have baby, i will lose myself , and i need to spend lots of time to take care of my children and i will so tired. i can't imagine that life ,it is so terrible. today i said to my mother ,i dont want to have children, my mum said i still so young and i shouldnt say that and i know that she dont agree with me.