thinking of the love relationship I think the lover relationship is a good chance to understand and recover yourself. because the relationship can stimulate the deep feeling expression. In the normal day with normal people, you can hide yourself behind the mask, laughing to everyone but ignore the shadow inside your heart. Depression is one way to reminds who you are, I think love is another one. If you can perceive with your feelings change, such as eager, exciting, yearning, disappointed, it can lead you to know about deep of your heart. You need to remember to be aware when you taste all of that. Most Feelings come from the subconscious, be aware of your feelings can leads you close to it. It is a good way to face to face with your fear and guilt. If you transfer it well, you can get free. There's not healing by the relationship. It is healing by yourself, The relationship is to remind you to do that.