What should I do...?
I'm currently looking for a job but I found it would be too difficult for me to find a job as a regular(permanent) staff, because my husband has possibility to move in the future(well, we already have moved three times because of his job). In Japan, regular staffs(permanent staffs) can earn a lot and they can do job with responsibility and can get certain skill through the job. I might be able to work as a temporary staff, but in this case, I won't be able to earn money that much and won't be able to do any responsible job(they tend to give easy tasks only so it sounds boring to me).
When I was a student, I studied very hard and graduated a famous university. But it feels like if I can't work as a regular staff, this experience means nothing, so that's why I'm afraid of giving up getting a permanent job.But in reality, mmm it's almost impossible...Well, life is hard and not fair...especially for women. Many women in Japan have to give up their career because of their partners job even if they are smart and high skilled.
Oh I'm so sorry for this messy sentences...I was just refused by a company which I had a job interview the other day because of the possibility to quit, so I'm upset and totally lost...
How about in your country? Do the women whose husband transfer a lot can get a job or tend to be a housewife?
今転職活動中ですが、正社員としての職を得ることが難しいと感じています。なぜなら夫がまた転勤の可能性があるからです(もう何度か転勤で引っ越ししています). 日本では、正社員は給料が良く、責任のある仕事を任せられ、仕事を通じてスキルが身につきます。派遣社員として働くこともできますが、もしそうしたら正社員ほど給料が良くなく、責任のある仕事が任されません(簡単な仕事のことが多く、つまらなさそうです)
私は学生時代たくさん勉強をし、有名な大学を卒業しました。しかしもし正社員として働けなかったらこの頑張りが無駄になるのではと思い、なかなか正社員を諦めることができません。でも現実ほぼ不可能ですよね。。人生は簡単じゃないし不公平だなあ。特に女性は不利だ。日本ではたくさんの女性が、優秀であろうとスキルがあろうと配偶者の仕事の関係でキャリアを諦めなければいけません。
ぐちゃぐちゃの文章でごめんなさい。ついさっき先日面接を受けた会社から転勤がどうせあるんでしょと不採用通知が来て戸惑ってるだけです。。。もう道に迷ってる。
あなたの国ではどうですか?旦那さんが転勤が多い奥さんは就職できますか?それとも専業主婦になりますか?
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What should I do...?
I'm currently looking for a job but I found it would be too difficult for me to find a job as a regular(permanent) staff member, because my husband has the possibility to move in the future (well, we already have moved three times because of his job). In Japan, regular staffs (permanent staffs) can earn a lot and they can do a job with responsibilities and can get certain skills through the job. I might be able to work as a temporary staff, but in this case, I won't be able to earn money that much and won't be able to do any responsible jobs with responsibilities (they tend to give easy tasks only so it sounds boring to me).When I was a student, I studied very hard and graduated from a famous university. But it feels like if I can't work as a regular staff member, this experience means nothing, so that's why I'm afraid of giving up getting a permanent job. But in reality, mmm it's almost impossible...Well, life is hard and not fair...especially for women. Many women in Japan have to give up their career because of their partner's job even if they are smart and highly skilled.
Oh I'm so sorry for these messy sentences...I was just refused by a company at which I had a job interview the other day because of the possibility to quit, so I'm upset and totally lost...
How about in your country? Do Can the women whose husband transfers a lot can get a job or do they tend to be a housewife?
今転職活動中ですが、正社員としての職を得ることが難しいと感じています。なぜなら夫がまた転勤の可能性があるからです(もう何度か転勤で引っ越ししています). 日本では、正社員は給料が良く、責任のある仕事を任せられ、仕事を通じてスキルが身につきます。派遣社員として働くこともできますが、もしそうしたら正社員ほど給料が良くなく、責任のある仕事が任されません(簡単な仕事のことが多く、つまらなさそうです)
私は学生時代たくさん勉強をし、有名な大学を卒業しました。しかしもし正社員として働けなかったらこの頑張りが無駄になるのではと思い、なかなか正社員を諦めることができません。でも現実ほぼ不可能ですよね。。人生は簡単じゃないし不公平だなあ。特に女性は不利だ。日本ではたくさんの女性が、優秀であろうとスキルがあろうと配偶者の仕事の関係でキャリアを諦めなければいけません。
ぐちゃぐちゃの文章でごめんなさい。ついさっき先日面接を受けた会社から転勤がどうせあるんでしょと不採用通知が来て戸惑ってるだけです。。。もう道に迷ってる。
あなたの国ではどうですか?旦那さんが転勤が多い奥さんは就職できますか?それとも専業主婦になりますか?
Personally, I don't really know. I live in a small country so travelling isn't a big issue if you can use a car here. Aside from that, by now quite a lot of women work and I don't think we have as many housewives as we did before. There are even some men becoming 'housemen' but they are still rare, though. In most cases, if the wife wants to work they both work, I think.
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Thank you very much for your advice! Fortunately, my husband is cooperative and he says I should do what I want to do, so I'll keep trying to find a job:)
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Hi,
I'm from Mexico, here happens too, but each time with less frequency (sure maybe I think it beacuse I'm male), anyway I think that in some places is not fair for women (personally I think that we should be valued by skills, I feel the same when the boss familiy get a not deserved job), so I think that you should look for a job in other company or even a country.
Sometimes the cultures (in general) are a pain in the ass, I mean we keep doing traditional non-sense practices.
On the other hand, I think that your family should respect your goals (healthy goals), in this case a staff job, the issue here is in what level are you disposse to achieve your goals?.
Personally, I think that if your partner (couple) does not support you (letting you free to reach your goals) maybe he is selfish and in the future this could be worse.
That's my opinion, but I'm just a student, and after all it is just an opinion.
Regards!
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