Working hard Once you fail. The main thing is to stay yourself after that. Not to lose yourself, never. Not to stay back in memories, not to imagine again and again what you had, not even blame yourself for what you've done. Doing all this your consciousness comes always back, doesn't progress, doesn't feel what it can feel in the moment. Everithing is happenning for a reason, and the reason is to learn something. If you have to learn a lot, then you'll have big problems probably. You can suffer. But this is what it is. No pain - no game. You have to become not a stony hard person, but a strong emotional real, smart and warm man who you will finally love. Yes, the first one who you have to love is youself. Don't blaim yourself, love yourself, but without that old selfishnes that you had. This selfishnes is not love at all, it is nothing but greed. Greed for love, for partner, for someone to stick yourself onto. If you are selfish, you can't love no one, even yourself. Especially yourself. If a person is selfish, this person doesn't respect himself. Nobody else respects him as well. If you loved but the love has been broken, maybe it's not your partner's fail but yours. And if it is so, learn. Sit and learn, walk and learn, sleep and learn. And forget. This is the best thing you can do in the end of a lesson. Not to focus on each and every word, moment, theory... They are already inside you. Don't overthink. Live with it. Breath, love and enjoy your life with this new knoledge. It will stay with you forever. You cannot return your lesson back. You should definitely find another one. But sometimes it's hard to grow up. It's hard to work forward if the lesson time was such an amasing time of your life. Sometimes that experience was so bright, you have felt so much... That when it's over you have.. a great work to do. I'm working on it. I learn to love myself, to enjoy this time, to destroy my selfishness. Hard but possible. One day I'll share with you somethng bright, I promise)