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Expressing Emotions My chin was wounded when I fell off my bike. Seriously bleeding, I went to the school hospital and had four to five stitches under my chin. After that, I had to wear an ugly bandage around my chin and explained hundreds of times, if not thousands, what happened to my chin. I noticed an interesting fact in the company of my bandage. Some of my Chinese classmates chose not to ask what happened as if the bandage did not exist. If they did ask, they used a very careful tone, possibly afraid to hurt me again by asking. However, I was also a teaching assistant in an international class consisting of government officials mainly from Africa and Eurasia. On the first day when I appeared with the bandage, I couldn’t remember how many times I was asked about it! And the way they asked was quite different too: frowning, curious, straightforward and emotional. Probably I need more rigorous econometrics techniques to determine whether this contrast was due to cultural difference, but not other factors such as age, profession, experience or my role in the class. However, I do feel cultural difference has played an important part. Chinese expression of emotions is usually constrained and “introverted”, while some of the foreign expression is more often candid and “extroverted”. The other example would be: there are very few occasions in my memory where I have said “I love you” to my parents, but this expression seems prevalent in Western dramas. In addition, don’t expect a stranger to smile at you in China, but this may not be the case in some other countries. Culture shapes how emotions are felt and expressed. However, to what extent this difference can influence the business world remains an open question. Human adaptability to a new environment should not be underestimated. However, to what degree human behaviour can be altered by this adaption may vary from person to person.

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Expressing Emotions

My chin was wounded when I fell off my bike. Bleeding profusely, I went to the school hospital and had four to five stitches on my chin. After that, I had to wear an ugly bandage (around it)and explain hundreds of times, if not thousands, what happened to my chin.

I noticed an interesting fact in the company of my bandage. Some of my Chinese classmates chose not to ask what happened as if the bandage did not exist. If they did ask, they used a very careful tone, because they were probably afraid to hurt (me again by asking) my feelings. However, I was also a teaching assistant in an international class consisting of government officials mainly from Africa and Eurasia. On the first day when I appeared with the bandage, I couldn’t remember how many times they asked me about it! And the way they asked me was quite different too: frowning, curious, straightforward and emotional.

I probably need more rigorous econometrics techniques to determine whether this contrast was due to cultural difference, and not other factors such as age, profession, experience or my role in the class. However, I do feel that cultural difference has played an important part. Chinese expression of emotions is usually constrained and “introverted”, while some of the foreign expression is more often candid and “extroverted”. The other example would be: there are very few occasions in my memory where I have said “I love you” to my parents, but this expression seems prevalent in Western dramas. In addition, don’t expect a stranger to smile at you in China, but this may not be the case in some other countries.

Culture shapes how emotions are felt and expressed. However, to what extent this difference can influence the business world remains an open question. Human adaptability to a new environment should not be underestimated. However, to what degree human behaviour can be altered by this adaption may vary from person to person.


great job :D I just changed some words here and there so it'd flow better.


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Thanks Amanda! Sorry to hear that you had a bike accident too. It is also interesting that we have different reactions to our wounds. Hope you are recovering too. : )
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This is really well written! I just had to comment because the exact same thing happened to me a few years ago. I had a bike accident and had to get four stitches on my chin. A few people asked my what happened but others did not even though I wanted to tell everyone because I thought it was a funny story!

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