Raising Children For Old Ages Mrs. Zhou had 4 sons, all of them are rich but busy. When she had a stroke and couldn’t take care of herself, none of her sons could come back and stay with her, they hired three personal attendants work on shifts to look after her. She died lonely and miserably. Mrs. Zhou thought she had raised 4 ungrateful sons, but none of them were ungrateful, they all had their own lives and couldn’t come back for her. The black and white only lives in the fairy tales, in the real world, we hurt our beloved ones usually because the reality is against our wishes. This is the story that touched me the most. As a mother, I know exactly how much time and energy that we need to raise a child, I know how much I have to give up for my children. This is not a fairy tale world, this is a harsh world, you’ve never asked your kids whether they want to come to this world or not, you just bring them to this world blankly, why you want kids? Raising children for old ages is so cold, it is a planned shell game, and it means everyone’s birth was for another two people’s old life. We think that our parents are in love then they have us, we think love is our instinct. But when we say” I raise children for my old age”, all of our warm love disappears. We are all like the monkeys in the circus, we are raised so that we could performance as someone wished. Raise children for old ages hurts not the young generation, it hurts parents too, many parents don’t have their own lives for raising children and expect them to pay back in their old ages, and they devote everything for their kids. When kids grow up, how much they have given to their kids, how much they want to get back from their kids, their misery and family feud comes from here.