The generation that doesn't want a relationship. (Part 2) Continuation of "The generation that doesn't want a relationship. (Part 1)" ⑧We want the rewards with no risk, we want the payout with no cost. We want to connect enough but not too much, we want to commit a little but not a lot. ⑧リスクなしで報酬を得たいと考えてる。費用なしで支払いをしたいと思ってる。 我々は十分に接続したいが、それほど多すぎない。我々は少しはコミットしたいが、多くはしたくない。 ⑨When things get too close to being real, we run, we hide and we leave. We want a placeholder not a person, we want a warm body not a partner. We want someone to eat with while we scroll through our newsfeed. ⑨ No translation yet! Please help :) ⑩See, what we really need to recognize is that the things that we truly want, the things that are deeply meaningful, the things that are genuinely fulfilling, all require patience. They all require work. They all require energy. See, the challenge is we all want to be with someone who makes us happy, when what we need to do is be someone who makes us happy. ⑩自分が本当に求めている、意味のあるもの、欲求を満たすものを手に入れるには必ず我慢が必要だということを、私たちはお互いに認識しないといけない。それには努力もエネルギーも必要。誰もが自分を幸せにしてくれる人と一緒になりたいと思うでしょう？そのためには、人を幸せにできる人間に自分自身がならなければいけない。 But the problem with our generation not wanting relationships is that - in the end of the day, we actually do want relationships. しかし、私たちの世代が関係を望まないという問題は、今日の終わりには、実際には関係が必要だということ。 Thank you for taking your time to read and to help!