Can you overbear it for 4 years? Can you overbear it for 4 years? I started to tell myself these words 5 years ago, when I was in very stressful situation. It works. Nothing serious can be changed in 1 month or in 1 year, but 4-year period is generally long enough for solving many issues. Situation will change for the better in 4 years, if you make decisions, work hard, search new ways. Will you improve yourself, obtain new objectives, develop new skills, or will not, this period will pass anyway. So, if you need just hold on for 4 years, you can learn a new language, get a bachelor degree, make savings. Cranky screaming 2-year-old sun will grow up, become more self-sustained young man )) You can finish you bachelor degree, start work and have more money for vacations. A one friend of mine had a problem with her beloved sun in his adolescence, it made her cry almost everyday. Recently I’ve suddenly met her on the street, and asked her about her boy. Boy? He lives in college campus, and my friend has just returned from her 2-month trip from Vietnam. Quarrelling is not topical any more. Wait for 4 years… You are not to sorrow greatly, and not to rejoice greatly. All will pass. A one famous ballerina has made a very bad deed. She’s got pregnant from married man and broke his marriage, forcing him to break any communication with his young daughters. On their wedding day she was greatly happy, sure of their future and his love and care about their newborn child. Wait for 4 years…